Help? Options? Suggestions?
So I can see myself slowly slipping into a place I dont really want to be in. Sad and depressed . Nothing major happened – just fed up of everything being the same today as it was last year and the year before. Same job, no significant romantic interest, havent learn anything new in awhile….and just basically stuck in a rut. I know i know I need to stop moaning about it and do something – but seriously, what are the options out there? Anyone? I am open to suggestions. I have looked around…Tried joining a volunteer group – but they didnt do much apart from sit around watching the match and talking of things. Help? Someone ? Desperately looking for ideas!
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First of all, what can you do? State your positives as you have stated your negatives, if you do not want to talk in public, send me an email. We might have some ideas.
Hi, thanks so much for replying…hmmm, ok this is what I can do ….im good in my english, and in writing, very good at organising, coordinating , making things happen….i like music and studied it for some years….any ideas as to how I can contribute?
Oh i know the feeling, it kinda sucks, been gettin into things i use to love most, designing n other stuf.. but still thts not enough for me..
Do let me know if u come across anything…
so glad to know that Im not alone in this…sometimes it seems like everyone else out there has a purpose and something to do apart from work…and im stuck in the most boring life ever….will for sure let you know if i find something!
Depends on your interests. Find something that you liked doing in the past; maybe craft, maybe dancing, maybe a sport and join a group.
For a running group, join the Hash House Harriets. There is an archery group and a cycling group, if you want to try those, came across them on some blogs. If you have sung before there are a number of choirs around.
The Lionel Wendt has a regular photography course for beginners which you can try.
thanks Jack….unfortunately, was never into sports….need to find my ‘thing’!
Hmmm… can definitely recommend the classes at the Wendt. I volunteered at a kid’s home for a while… teaching science and english to a handful of kids. It was a wonderful experience, and I did it for almost a year.
volunteering with kids sounds great…did you go through an organisation or was it a personal contact?